Divorce: The First Six Months with Peter Maestrey
This conversation is about Divorce, specifically the first six months. It's about understanding the emotional and physical spaces the guests have gone through. You will listen to and observe what people have experienced and the decisions they made to navigate their divorce. They talk about what happened, what they did, and what they would do differently. The conversation is unique because it provides insights into what happens in divorce within the first six months. Learn what we did, so that you can avoid making the same mistakes.
Episodes
194 episodes
WEEKEND NUGGET - Being a victim
in this episode, a deep dive into what this means on both sides of the spectrum is shared. Looking into the cost versus the payoff of being a victim or victimizing. Identifying some of the patterns in which it exists and also exploring some of ...
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Segev Perets - I am a man and I serve love.
In our final episode with Segev, we begin with a mantra he follows. "I am man and I serve love." He shares how this helped him, how it shaped him and how he just more of that now. As we begin to realize that we are completing our conversation, ...
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Season 6
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Episode 157
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10:03
Segev Perets - Whenever you are not in acceptance of what there is, there is fucking pain.
In this episode, Segev shares how uncomfortable it is to go against the grain, to risk self-expression. How within his life he has maneuvered to gain acceptance and love out of others expectations. He speaks about how much he cried during his f...
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Season 6
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Episode 156
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10:59
WEEKEND NUGGET - How to manage fear
How to manage fear is not exactly what the title means. I say this because each of us is different and fear is a much larger thing to manage than a 10-minute podcast. But, do not be discouraged, I do offer up some insight into the world and you...
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Segev Perets - Your kids need you inspired, happy, lit up, fulfilled, nourished.
In this episode, we look at the elements that made his life liveable. How finding himself again began with a choice and how the actions of that choice led him here. We learn the importance of reconnecting with one's self and how Segev discovere...
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Season 6
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Episode 155
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12:17
Segev Perets - I made myself sick managing other people's expectations
In this episode, we look into expectations and the many things that showed up around it with Segev. From being obese with skin issues and diagnosed with an autoimmune deficiency disease to the start of his healing, which began when he stopped g...
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Season 6
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Episode 154
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WEEKEND NUGGET - 2021 Recap
In this Weekend Nugget I reflect on all the things 2021 and make a request of you, the listeners. Something new is brewing in the horizon and I am eager and hungry to share it with you real soon. In the meantime, enjoy another Nugget for the we...
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Segev Perets - First thing that comes to my mind
In this episode, we listen to Segev speak about how important it is for him that his kids know that they are loved. He shares how he used to think that being in their lives all the time meant being a good father, especially during the first six...
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Season 6
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Episode 153
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10:59
Segev Perets - I did not know how to honor myself.
Segev is the first person we have a conversation with within DTF6M that is technically not divorced, but has gone through or is going through what a divorced person goes through. He has two boys, the youngest with special needs and he is a Masc...
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Season 6
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Episode 152
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.6 - Say something about how you feel, don’t keep all that bottled up.
In our final episode with Daniel, we close this series by looking back at the beginning and saying out loud what most don’t admit. We don’t know how to navigate a divorce. No one goes into it a marriage thinking about this ending as an option. ...
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.5 - Healing isn’t linear.
In this episode, Daniel talks about the importance of finding your tribe. Describe what that looks like, what qualities they should have to understand your situation, and how important it is for them to have been divorced. How having that commo...
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WEEKEND NUGGET - What is a Unicorn Divorce?
In this episode of the Nugget, we explore what the Unicorn Divorce is, how to create it, and I also share some tools that you can apply today. From the moment you decide this is something you want to consider, all the way through to the d...
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.4 - What I really care about is investing in the people that I love.
In this episode, Daniel shares how he discovered himself and what that process looked like for him. From living in a 600 sq. ft. apartment to driving a beat-up car with 180k miles on it. He speaks about the different phases one goes through in ...
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.3 - Money is replaceable.
In this episode, Daniel shares about his relationship with the ex during the divorce. How they agreed on things and how they communicated instead of lunging towards representation and pettiness. He reveals how they kept the same parenting style...
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WEEKEND NUGGET - Why do we get married?
In this nugget, we travel to the reasons for the topic. Where did it begin, how has it evolved, and why it is so important that we understand it. Marriage is a beautiful union of two souls into a commitment that ends in death do you part. Prett...
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.2 - I did everything to kind of numb my mind so that I wouldn’t have to embrace the loneliness.
In this episode, Daniel speaks about what it was like living alone. The moment when the eerily quiet arrived and the feelings started to come in as he settled into his new apartment. He shares how he watched a lot of Netflix and did anything he...
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Daniel Herrold - Ep. 30.1 - I had a 26 year relationship with this one person.
Meet Daniel Herrold, father of 3 young women, and a divorce conversation active participant. Daniel is a successful man, both on and off the divorce platform, and in this series of episodes, you are going to see what it was like for him t...
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WEEKEND NUGGET - What is Fear?
In this episode, we look at fear from a different perspective. Distinguishing what it is by definition, what it could look like inside of a divorce, and what can be done to not have it be so consuming. Anything that stops you from moving ...
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Amy Hill - Ep. 29.6 - Healing is possible, freedom is possible, happiness is possible.
In our final episode with Amy, we begin with the conversation with what the common link between domestic survivors often is, and then complete our episode with happiness is possible. An arc worthy of a rainbows path is how I would share this ep...
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Amy Hill - Ep. 29.5 - Trust is very important to me. Once that is gone you don’t really have a basis to move forward
In this episode, we start with what’s important, which is the values you live by. Amy shares how being guided by those values gave her something far greater than the reality of the situation. For example, in her story, she has spoken of what it...
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WEEKEND NUGGET - Podcast Recap
In this episode, I look back at when this started, what happened, and where am I today. Taking in the many conversations that have occurred and how things have grown and developed as a result of this podcast. In looking back, one begins to ask ...
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Amy Hill - Ep. 29.4 - It’s also important to know what a healthy relationship is.
In this episode, Amy raises an important question. The importance of knowing what a healthy relationship looks like. What are the green flags? She explains how she is grateful for her journey and how it has left her humbled in the process. How ...
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Amy Hill - Ep. 29.3 - Being a single mom, I wanted to do what was best for them, and for me.
In this episode, Amy explains a bit more about what it looks like to be gaslighted. She shares how you simply don’t know, especially if the other person provides positive reinforcement that has you believe it will be okay. She gives us personal...
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10:47
WEEKEND NUGGET - Why do we shame people?
In this episode, l take a moment to look at shaming from a different perspective. I look at it from all the conversations that have taken place since the divorce. The commonalities we all share and the resemblances, of which, shaming is o...
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Amy Hill - Ep. 29.2 - Things didn’t change when I was pregnant. In fact, they got a whole lot worse.
In this episode Amy speaks about what it was like to be pregnant, and how the toxicity of the relationship affected her breast feeding, as well as overall health. How things didn’t change with him as a result of her pregnancy, they actually bec...
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